Couples Therapy in Boulder, CO
For couples feeling disconnected, trapped in recurring painful patterns, or struggling to rebuild trust after betrayal.
For couples feeling disconnected, trapped in recurring painful patterns, or struggling to rebuild trust after betrayal.
Most couples don't struggle because they don't know how to communicate. They struggle because the same patterns quietly shape every conversation. Lasting change begins by uncovering the attachment and nervous system dynamics driving those patterns.
You're speaking to each other. You're just not reaching each other.

You keep shrinking, performing, pleasing, or disappearing until you barely recognize yourself. And somewhere along the way, the relationship stopped feeling like home.

By the time couples find me, they've usually tried almost everything. You may have worked harder, changed how you communicate, or done everything your therapist suggested. Yet it still hasn't helped. The problem isn't a lack of effort. It's that the underlying pattern hasn't changed.

Areas We May Work On
What is the pattern beneath the pattern?
Every relationship develops an invisible pattern of organizing around closeness, conflict, distance, and protection. Until that becomes visible, the same pain tends to return in different forms. Lasting change begins when you can finally see what has been shaping your relationship all along. Once you can see it, everything makes more sense. What once felt confusing begins to feel coherent.

I work with couples navigating emotional disconnection, recurring conflict, betrayal, intimacy issues, and relationship transitions. My approach is rooted in attachment theory, nervous system dynamics, somatic therapy, and relational neuroscience — helping couples move beyond surface conflict and understand the deeper patterns shaping their relationship.
The goal is not perfection, but greater emotional safety, connection, and meaning.

Ketamine-Assisted Therapy in Boulder, CO
Some patterns live deeper than insight alone can reach.
Ketamine-assisted psychotherapy may help soften defenses, reduce nervous system rigidity, and create space for emotional processing.
This work is thoughtfully integrated with trauma-informed and attachment-based psychotherapeutic interventions.

I work with individuals navigating anxiety, emotional overwhelm, relationship struggles, attachment wounds, neurodivergence, grief, and major life transitions.
My approach integrates the nervous system, developmental trauma modalities, and modern psychoanalysis to uncover the adaptations of the self that have shaped behavior, emotions, and relationships.
Serving couples in Boulder, CO and nearby communities including Louisville, Lafayette, Longmont, and Niwot.
Feel Free to call, email, or text me. I would love to hear from you!
703 Walnut Street, Boulder, CO, USA


A self-reflection tool powered by AI—for individuals and couples.
Part mirror, part guide, the CORE Mirror helps you explore emotional patterns, unconscious roles, and relational truths.
A depth-oriented space to uncover what’s really driving your relationship dynamics—anytime, anywhere.
✨ You’ll be asked to log in to ChatGPT to begin.
You’re in charge—ask it to slow, simplify, or deepen. It listens and adapts to your needs.
*The Core Mirror is NOT therapy or a substitute for therapy*
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