Boulder Couples Therapy for Deeper Connection

Not all couples therapy is designed for depth. Mine is depth-oriented therapy. If domestic violence or active abuse is present, couples therapy is contraindicated. I do not treat sexual compulsivity or sex addiction, but I do work with individuals in toxic or trauma-bonded dynamics who are committed to deep personal and relational work through relationship counseling.

I’m a couples therapist in Boulder working with relationships in crisis, emotional shutdown, betrayal, and the question of whether to stay together or separate.

I work with couples in Boulder, Colorado, who are done skimming the surface—whether you’re in a full-blown relationship crisis or quietly unraveling behind closed doors.

This may be you if you’re:

• Navigating betrayal, emotional shutdown, or intense emotional volatility
• On the edge of separation—or unsure if you want to stay together
• Functioning well on the outside but starving for real emotional and sexual intimacy
• Longing for clarity, truth, and something more honest than the roles you’ve been playing

This is depth-oriented couples therapy in Boulder, CO, for people who can no longer pretend everything’s fine.

We won’t just talk about conflict. In our work together, we explore:

• The attachment wounds, emotional defenses, and inherited relationship patterns underneath it all
• The ways each of you learned to survive—and how those strategies now collide in your relationship
• The grief and the hope you’re both carrying, whether spoken or not

This is trauma-informed, emotionally focused, insight-driven relationship counseling for couples who are ready to stop circling the same argument and start understanding what’s actually driving the pain.

You won’t get scripts, worksheets, or surface-level “communication tools.”
You’ll build a deeper relationship with yourselves, with each other, and with the patterns that have kept you stuck.

This is couples counseling for the brave—whether you’re in crisis, drifting apart, recovering from betrayal, struggling with intimacy, or finally ready to go deeper.

Many of the couples I work with are in a quiet limbo. Not fully in. Not fully out. Just… suspended in the ache of uncertainty. Living in the tension between what once was and what could still be. Repeating the same ruptures, holding back the hardest truths, waiting for clarity that never seems to come. 

This is depth-oriented therapy for couples navigating disconnection, ambivalence, or the aftershocks of betrayal. Whether you’re:  

• Considering a breakup or trial separation  

• Unsure whether to keep trying or let go  

• Longing for clarity before making life-altering decisions  

• Parenting together while emotionally drifting apart  

I offer a space for couples therapy to slow down, reflect deeply, and move toward whatever is most honest—with compassion and care.  

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If you stay, we rebuild from the core. If you part, we do it with integrity. I offer:  

• Clarity-centered couples therapy for relationship indecision  

• Uncoupling support and guidance through separation  

• Divorce counseling and co-parenting coaching  

• Deep emotional process work for couples in relational transition  

You don’t have to know what comes next. But you do deserve a space where the questions can finally breathe.