DeptH-Oriented Couples Therapy in Boulder
I work with couples navigating emotional disconnection, betrayal, attachment wounds, recurring conflict, intimacy struggles, and major relationship transitions. I also work with ADHD and neurodivergence in relationships, particularly where rejection sensitivity, attachment patterns, and relational hyperfocus intersect.
This work goes beyond surface-level communication techniques and focuses on the emotional, relational, and nervous-system patterns underlying the conflict.
Couples therapy may not be appropriate in situations involving ongoing abuse, coercion, or active violence. Learn more here: https://couplescounselorboulder.com/f/what-if-it’s-not-about-communication-at-all
https://couplescounselorboulder.com/f/the-self-you-left-behind?blogcategory=Attachment
Meet the Core Mirror
An AI self-inquiry for individuals and couples.
We tend to think the problem is the fight, the person, the breakup, the thing we can't stop thinking about.
But the thing we're focused on is rarely the whole story.
The CORE Mirror helps you follow the pattern back—to what keeps repeating, what you're protecting, and why this particular relationship has such a hold on you.
*The Core Mirror is NOT therapy or a substitute for therapy.*