Boulder Couples Counseling for Deeper Connection

If domestic violence or other forms of abuse are present, couples counseling is contraindicated. However, I do see individuals stuck in abusive or toxic relationship patterns. Additionally, I do not treat sexually compulsive behaviors or sex addiction. 

I am not a referee, nor a neutral bystander, and definitely not someone who’ll smile politely while you reenact your worst fights on my couch. However, your worst fights are welcome on my couch, and I will get right in there with you until we arrive at the heart of the matter! 

I work with couples who are done pretending it’s just a communication issue. If you’re in crisis, on the verge of separation, dealing with betrayal, want an intimacy upgrade, or are walking on eggshells and afraid to bring up the hard topics, this is the kind of therapy that goes to the core.

We won’t just talk about surface behaviors—we’ll look at what drives them: early attachment wounds, power struggles, emotional immaturity, family legacies, and the armor you both wear to survive love.

You’ll get:

• Honest reflections and direct feedback (not sugar-coated)
• Somatic and nervous system-based practices 
• Deep exploration of trust, attraction, resentment, and unmet needs
• Interventions from PACT, IFS, sex therapy, object relations, and trauma work
• A space where nothing has to be hidden, and nothing will be dismissed

This isn’t therapy-lite. It’s real, raw, and built for couples who want to stop circling the same fight and actually change the pattern, from the inside out.

I support many couples on the brink of a breakup, separation, or divorce. While it is unavoidably painful to end a relationship, I strive to empower my clients with strategies and logistics to take these steps while held with care and compassion.  Additionally, I offer uncoupling counseling, co-parenting coaching, and divorce counseling.